How do you talk to yourself? Is it out of guilt, fear, disgust, or out of forgiveness and the love of Christ? How you talk to yourself is reflected in how you talk to others and how you see yourself through God’s eyes. If you are constantly longing for a better life, giving yourself permission to indulge in your temptations, or consistently angry about everything, you are feeding satans grip on your life and are not feeding the goodness of God within. Which one do you think sets the precedent in your life, your words, your actions? The one you feed.
Step away from your self condemnation and build a better house. God has already forgiven what you perceive is the problem(s). Time to forgive yourself and start over feeding your Holy Spirit within.