Any acts of wrong doing is not absolved just by saying “sorry” or “I forgive you” nor does it lessen the hurt, dishonesty, or grief cast upon the recipients who are left dangling in the fallout. The greatest way love of self and others is shown is not by mere words, but, rather, acknowledging wrong doing and in expectant gratitude of the healing that will take place by doing so this action then comes from the heart. As well, those who suffer at the hands of others indiscretions are faced with a lifetime of bitterness, angry memories, and/or withering trust unless there is a bold step towards the forgiveness that comes from the heart so peace is imminent; it’s a process. Relationships my not be fully restored, but the possibility is always there when truth, honesty, and sincerity come from within. Many times it’s accomplished by the grace of God and unexplainable. Many times restoration doesn’t happen at all, but what heartfelt words will do is restore respect, honor, and possibly a new level communication, a calm goodbye, and a peace within you that will last your lifetime.
None on earth are perfect. Acknowledging our shortcomings and Forgiving ourselves and others is not about weakness or giving away our Holy power. It’s about healing our hearts so love can grow again. No matter how often we must say those words from the heart it serves to cast out bitterness, anger, wasting away, and leads us on to the God of restoration, love, and goodness. That is the ultimate and best form of love that we can give each other.
There is too much hate, sickness, lack of truth in taking responsibility for our own choices in this world. There are always consequences. When we harbor hurt our physical and spiritual bodies suffer. When we harbor lies our physical and spiritual bodies suffer. Christ suffered so that we may live in peace, harmony, and balance. It takes courage and work many times. But oh so worth the health and deliverance from evil doings. Today, take whatever steps are necessary for you to restore and thank God for His provisions. Say you’re Sorry; Say you’re Forgiven! Mean it!
“For when I kept silent my bones wasted away through my groaning….I acknowledged my selfish ways and confessed… You forgave me… You surround me with shouts of deliverance.” Psalm 32