Love is not given nor received freely by many in this world. There is an attachment of reciprocation whether conscious or unconscious. To be like Jesus we must willing to remove self and embrace holiness.
The pure essence of your heart of Jesus is when you show unconditional love to the unlovable. Is your heart of Jesus pure?
Love is patient; Jesus stopped whatever He was doing and wherever He was going to heal, give miracles, express concern, or save, and did not do these things impatiently. Love is kind; Jesus stopped everything and gave His undivided attention with compassion. Pure love is not given without first tuning your heart to holiness.
Love is a heart of Jesus. The blessing is to receive and give away His pure heart of love, patience, kindness, and care.