Trusting God when life goes awry is our only option. Otherwise we become frozen in the moments meant to destroy us and freaking out starts to become our go to. We are not meant to become a part of the chaos and disruption. We are called and anointed by God to go to His Words of wisdom, maintain order in our minds, and trust the process of the plan. It takes willpower. When practiced our longing is not dependent upon the world, but rather we seek the secret place of holiness.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
Practice the art of trusting God. You will find that your soul is freed from tangled webs you have no control over anyway.