What is the meaning of Love?
Love is unconditional, sacred, sacrificing of self, respectful, genuine care, and not a competition. God’s love is true and genuine.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. 1 Corinthians 13:4–8 (ESV)
Love is Not lust, self-serving, mind games, nor manipulation. Know the difference.
When you make God your first true love, then you recognize genuine love and care. Is God your first love?