To love the unlovable is to love like Jesus. To share a meal with the homeless is to share like Jesus. To forgive your betrayers is to forgive like Jesus. We are to learn from the teachings of Jesus as to how to live with one another.
It’s not always easy, but it is what we must emulate or our Christian walk on earth is shallow and incomplete. We encounter Judas every day. Live like Jesus
And as they were reclining at table and eating, Jesus said, “Truly, I say to you, one of you will betray me, one who is eating with me.” They began to be sorrowful and to say to him one after another, “Is it I?” He said to them, “It is one of the twelve, one who is dipping bread into the dish with me. Mark 14
Because of your deep love for Jesus you can show love to your Judas. It is about you not them.