The path to wisdom is in the letting go, giving instead of receiving, and protecting yourself from the distractions that take you away from a deep personal relationship with Jesus. Seek wisdom in the scriptures, through prayer, in the moment.
That path leads you to the realizations of what is truly most important in life. You begin to clearly understand what you need to let go of or embrace. Seek Holy Spirit guidance.
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. 1 Corinthians 10:13
Be an owl. Spend time assessing the distractions that are keeping you away from holiness. Then fly away from them towards the light. Ask Jesus to help you.